So today a friend asked me to babysit her two boys this afternoon. I said yes..knowing this is going to turn into a every Tuesday deal. I also knew it wasnt going to go well when she said she was sending alot of homework with her oldest...do I look like a childcare homework service?!?
Anyways..to the point of this blog...ANOTHER friend took it upon herself to tell the above mentioned friend that I really am not interested in babysitting and probably wont be doing it every week...which them prompts friend 1 to call me and be bitchy saying she doesnt need me to tonight...of course I dont know why she is canceling..until friend 2 calls and explains what she said...
Who the hell does she think she is to speak for me? Granted I dont want to babysit every week, I didnt mind doing it tonight..
And now friend 1 is pissed at me..who I've had a few issues with anyways and friend 2 made it worse..WTF?!?
Do I let it go? Do I say something to friend 1? What?
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they both sound like they've got issues, unless #2 thought she was helping ... and #1 needs to realize she cant take advantage of you .. #1 should have called and talked to you about it nicely or not at all and just accepted your goodness for today
but waht to I know about people anymore anyway?
at least you have friends where you live even if they do cause drama (glass half FULL... trying to make lemonade, etc etc etc)
i would explain to friend 1 that getting pissed at you wasnt the right thing to do
then i would explain to friend 2 that you dont need her tending to you business
people suck sorry
Maybe it was a miscommunication? maybe #2 thought that she was helping you out and didn't mean to step on your toes. But #1 should have discussed it with you nicer. Sometimes friends are more of a hassle than anything
I am about done with the whole lot...especially the friend who cant mind her own business! She was kind enough to tell Jason, one drunken night, that after my bladder surgery the doctor made my who haa as tight as a 14yr old...lovely!!
geez! Carrie i'm sorry your friends like to splatter your business all over. And in Ridgecrest news travels fast "trust me I know!" haha!
did he really make your whohoo as tight as a 14 yr old? and how does she know i have all these important questions answer me woman
LOL Crazy...yep, when he did my post op visit he said "just to let you know, I fixed ya up a little tight..I can still get 2 fingers in so you're good to go"...creepy!! Needless to say, I havent been back to him..and I really didnt need Jason to know!!
geez that is a little creepy for a dr to say. and ya it isn't any of Jason's business, and if ou wanted him to know i'm sure you'd rather it would come from you than her.
I'll be damned if #2 didnt do it again yesterday! She told friend #3 that I was pissed at her for telling something to her husband, that he really didnt need to know (sex issue) and then #2 proceeded to tell me that my facial expressions have an incredible way of showing every little thought that cross my brain..those are exact words!!
How do you cut someone out of your life?
WOW! she's something else! is she so bored with her own life that she has to mess with yours? just start weeding her out slowly
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